Nov 09 Newsletter

COACHES CORNER

At Success Martial Arts we pride ourselves on improving students character. There are many tools we can use to achieve this goal; one of which is sparring. Sparring is not only the most efficient way to improve physical attributes. It is also an invaluable tool for developing the character traits we all desire.

I like to think of sparring as both a test and a lesson. It shows what one has learned and indicates specifically where to focus for improvement. This sort of analysis of performance allows one to learn, and grow. When we test ourselves we find out what does and does not work for each individual (for example taller people trying to use reach as opposed to shorter people trying to stay close, however you never know which side of the coin you'll be on in any given situation). This sort of real-life simulation is the only true preparation for a real physical conflict. Sparring is not a real fight but the close simulation it provides, builds confidence to handle real situations appropriately.

A person who has dealt with physical conflict in a controlled setting is much less likely to get involved with real violence. Knowing that they can handle a problem is the foundation of the "I have nothing to prove (because I already have)", attitude that allows them to walk away from fights. Very often violence is portrayed in our society without clear consequences. Those who spar with live contact become familiar with the consequences of their actions and are likely to avoid a fight, knowing what the potential for harm is. However if one does not keep those skills sharp with sparring one loses confidence and that " I have nothing to prove" attitude. Which in turn might allow one to become involved in a foolish conflict.

Another facet in the value of sparring is the confidence people gain not only in their abilities, but in themselves. When someone can overcome and control their own anger, fear, and pain; they gain a tremendous belief in themselves. " I can do this .. .. I can do any thing!" The flip side of this benefit occurs when we as adults allow kids to give up/quit. Once the precedent is set (when things get tough; give up) it will flow over into other areas of life. If it's O.K. to give up in martial arts, it's ok to give up in school or work.

While sparring builds confidence it also instills a sense of humility. Few are likely to have an arrogant attitude after having been thoroughly challenged.

Sparring is part of a progressive training method. Games and drills are designed to prepare people to spar; to reduce the fear and anxiety that goes with being at risk; to understand the difference between fear, pain, and injury.

We all value the things we earn much more than the things we are given. Sparring is a great challenge; once overcome it provides great rewards, a person who refuses to give up in the face of hardship and can maintain a positive mind set not only comes to enjoy/appreciate sparring, but is prepared to take on life in general. Thank you for your consideration and support.

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Special Sparring Success Clinic !!
Great way to get ready for the tournament

Some of you are anxious about sparring; either to earn that next promotion or because you don’t really like to spar very much...or both. This camp is for you!! We’ll spend the whole time on drills and skills to help you spar better and safer and with more fun than you ever have before.
Saturday, Nov 7, 2PM
Only $25.00


Sumo Seminar
Parents Night Out
Friday, Nov 20, 6-8:30
Only $25 or
FREE when you Bring a Buddy


In House Tourney
Nov 21


Promotions Nov 24 + 25
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Giving and Thanks project
Salvation Army
10:30
Nov 27th